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Focusing on What You Love (Part III)

In Part I, we went from “everything” to a short list of things that make us feel alive. From Part II, we know that “nothing” is actually choosing to live with someone else’s decisions and that they are unlikely to make us feel alive.

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Focusing on What You Love (Part II)

It’s not that you shouldn’t do nothing, you can’t. It’s physically impossible. At every moment of every day, you’re doing something, even if it’s only breathing. What’s more, whatever you’re doing has consequences. It’s like dropping a stone in a pond of water, the consequences ripple outward and reflect back, sometimes in complex ways. Ok, […]

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Focusing on What you Love

Focusing on What You Love (Part I)

Ask yourself these questions about the things you do: 1. Does this make me feel alive? – Drop if not. 2. What would happen if I didn’t do this? Would it get done anyway? Would it matter if it didn’t? How important is it really? Is it more important than feeling alive? – Drop if […]

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